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Self-esteem and Identity
Yes, today we speak again of self-esteem and confidence. You have to understand that they are the basis to reach a successful lifestyle.
You have a very specific identity that has been built through the years by people you’ve met, places you’ve been, experiences you’ve done. But is this identity the best one for you and your goals? Of course not, because we can’t master it, it’s an identity that put limits at out lifestyles and little by little wear us out.
Today you can choose freely who you want to be. Make a prototype of the person you want to become, create in your mind a visual and sensorial representation of it. Give it the confidence, the passion, the love, the happiness you’d like to have. Start right now living like him/her, don’t wait anymore. Bring on the challenges of life and face them with your new identity full of self esteem.
Look into yourselves and find which your main values are. Put confidence and self esteem them: act always knowing what you want, focus on your goal and keep moving in that direction. Destiny doesn’t happen, YOU choose it.
Simplify your rules: make easier to satisfy your values and make harder to break them. In example, if your idea of love consists in your partner making all you want while singing ‘I love you’, well, then you will be disappointed expecting so much from your relationships. But, since you can always change your view on every aspect of life, simplify your rules!
You could consider satisfied your love value everytime you are warm-hearted with someone, or everytime you see someone happy. This way you could live a life full of love and avoid a lot of frustrations.
P.S.= in case you were wondering, no, it doesn’t work that way with money. You can never be satisfied with money. Money is never enough. Greed is good, gotcha?
